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The Difficulty With Saying No

I have a really hard time saying no. Especially when a great opportunity comes knocking on my door, and I have to turn it down. I even had a hard time hitting "Publish" on this post, because that makes it real. And I hate that it's real.

I was asked to be one of the live bloggers for this year's amazing Mom 2.0 conference, in Laguna, California. My ticket was covered, I had a place to stay at the Ritz-Carlton, and all I needed was airfare to get there. I was thrilled, and so thankful that I was asked to participate this way at my favourite conference. What a great opportunity.

Mom 2.0 is hands down the most exclusive, amazing, intimate blogging conference there is. It's just... awesome.




However, this year, the timing was not ideal and I had to make a seriously responsible decision, and say no. It was pretty much one of the hardest things I've had to say no to, because I was at Mom 2.0 last year in Miami and I know what I'm going to be missing. Sob.

You know when you haven't tried something before, and it's okay, because you don't know how great a thing it is that you're missing? But once you've had a taste for the great, you know it's great, so missing out really stings.



Mom 2.0 is the same weekend as Greek Easter, and this is a big deal for me and my family. I tried to come up with a hundred reasons why it would be okay to be away from my children this important weekend, but I wasn't feeling good about it, at all.

I also could not justify the $1000 airfare ticket to get to California for two nights. Last year, I was lucky to receive sponsorship from IKEA, Volkswagen, Tommee Tippee, and Kellogg's to attend Mom 2.0 but this year, because I was fairly certain I was not going to be attending, I didn't pursue this option early enough.

I was so looking forward to hanging out with some of my favourite people againā€”Jessica, Titania, Ali, NadiaAngellaā€”and finally meeting the first blogger I ever read, (and totally, totally love) Rebecca.

The only thing that makes me feel a tiny bit better? Knowing that this year Marinka won't be there, either.

Next year, you guys? I'm so there. I'm not missing my favourite conference two years in a row. It's a done deal.

I hope it's an incredible time for everyone going, and if you're looking for me May 3-5, I'll be under a rock somewhere in the fetal position with no internet connection, so I don't suffer from a bad case of FOMO!

Comments

SUEB0B saidā€¦
I'm sorry you won't be there - I would have liked to have met you. But it's a big, full life, and sometimes we're lucky enough to choose between two good things. Maybe next year!
Schmutzie saidā€¦
I'll miss you! I'm so sorry you couldn't come :(
Suzanne saidā€¦
You won't be under a rock. You'll be devouring lamb and awesome Greek food, and no doubt be tweeting and instagramming it. Enjoy this year with your fam and look forward to next year! xo
Angella saidā€¦
This makes me SO SAD.

You're a great Mom, Lou. But you'll e missed!
Unknown saidā€¦
Shoot, I'm sorry. I know you would LOVE to be there. xoxo
Loukia saidā€¦
I hope you have an amazing time! Also, how have we never met at BlogHer?!
Loukia saidā€¦
I thought about you last night and I got sad again because it would have been awesome to see you again! Have a great time... xo
Unknown saidā€¦
I will be there for you.
Kristin saidā€¦
I really wanted to go to Mom 2.0 this year too! My friend Devon is going, and she is so excited.

Maybe next year we can both go. :)
Marta saidā€¦
Ugh, I've never been to either conference and I definitely hide from social media when everyone is there because I have major envy reading all the tweets/instagrams/posts about it!