I may not be the perfect mom but I feel like I deserve some sort of supermom of the year award. Why? Because I actually took my boys to a birthday party all by myself this past weekend! And you know? The worry I had about having to leave 5 minutes into the party quickly left, as I saw that both of them were having fun - not clinging to my legs. Well, sometimes they were, but mostly they were playing and having fun.
The birthday girl even had a clown show up.
"I don't want to see the clown, mommy," Christos said to me.
"Don't worry sweetie, we don't have to get too close to him - let's just sit on the couch and watch from over here," I told him. And you know what? He sat there, and watched the clown the entire time. While Dimitry was sitting nicely in my lap. No tears, no screams, no biting, no hitting! Just two very well behaved boys, who also sat side by side to eat their pizza and cake. They were so cute together!
By the way, what is with children and their fear of clowns? I was terribly afraid of clowns as a child, too. Weird.
And long after the other 25 kids went back to playing, my boys were still eating, working on their second piece of cake.
So, I can do it. Even though I have had stressful experiences at the park, I can actually leave the house with my children without having an anxiety attack! This is cause for some sort of celebration, no?
Okay, I just want to clarify that this was not the first time I've taken my boys out solo. It happens quite often, but each time I worry, because it is not easy. Hey - I even took them both swimming on my own a couple of weeks ago, so I have to give myself more credit, right?
I ended the day with attending a 4th of July party at the US Ambassador's house where we did a lot of drinking and eating. It was fun to celebrate Independence Day in Canada!
I even got my picture taken with Abe. We go way, way back...
Hope you all had a fabulous weekend, too!
The birthday girl even had a clown show up.
"I don't want to see the clown, mommy," Christos said to me.
"Don't worry sweetie, we don't have to get too close to him - let's just sit on the couch and watch from over here," I told him. And you know what? He sat there, and watched the clown the entire time. While Dimitry was sitting nicely in my lap. No tears, no screams, no biting, no hitting! Just two very well behaved boys, who also sat side by side to eat their pizza and cake. They were so cute together!
By the way, what is with children and their fear of clowns? I was terribly afraid of clowns as a child, too. Weird.
And long after the other 25 kids went back to playing, my boys were still eating, working on their second piece of cake.
So, I can do it. Even though I have had stressful experiences at the park, I can actually leave the house with my children without having an anxiety attack! This is cause for some sort of celebration, no?
Okay, I just want to clarify that this was not the first time I've taken my boys out solo. It happens quite often, but each time I worry, because it is not easy. Hey - I even took them both swimming on my own a couple of weeks ago, so I have to give myself more credit, right?
I ended the day with attending a 4th of July party at the US Ambassador's house where we did a lot of drinking and eating. It was fun to celebrate Independence Day in Canada!
I even got my picture taken with Abe. We go way, way back...
Hope you all had a fabulous weekend, too!
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And, I'm not a clown fan, either.
I also just have to say that you look amazing for having 2 adorable boys!
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I love the picture of your boys at that big long table, eating their cake! Who wants to play when there's CAKE to eat!?!?
Going out alone is hard but it does get easier with with practice. Some outings go down in flames, but I think the skin gets thicker each time. Good for you!
Love your beautiful pics from the 4th!
And about the clown issue - my husband was very afraid of clowns as a kid and has now forbidden any clown-related things from ever entering our home. Personally I'm not bothered by them. But now Matthew is showing signs of being afraid of them too..
Those are such cute photos of the kids - and fabulous photos of you - and you and Abe!
And about clowns, are you kidding me? Clowns are TERRIFYING! Just read or watch Stephen King's It, and you will move on from a slight fear of clowns to them become TERRIFYING!!!!
And I booked my tickets to Canada for October, woot! Now I need to get Tiny Man his passport, yikes!
The photo of you and Abe is awesome! his hat really goes with your top ;-)